Contact etiquette & Where To Find Me
Contact etiquette:
Sending an email is the easiest, fastest, most convenient way to contact me.
All clients must confirm they are above the age of 21 (I will check ID on occasion)
In the unlikely event you have an injury during a session, Mistress Evie von Blonde shall not be held responsible. I have entrusted you to be open and honest, this includes your health and your personal boundaries. A client should always be prepared to use a stop or slow down word or an agreed gesture. This is an important factor in any scene.
evievonblonde@gmail.com A generic address from your mistress
0739 8960 267 only use if arranged and agreed beforehand
**Ensure that you have some definite dates and times when you are available to session before you ring.
My preference for contact is a well-thought-through email.
Check the bookings page for information about what an email should contain – remember that the more information you provide, the easier it is for me to plan my time with you. I check and review electronic applications daily and usually respond within 48hrs.
I might not be available to take phone calls, I am a busy woman.
I do not return any phone calls, out of respect for your privacy, and I never answer phone calls from withheld numbers. If you wish to discuss any session arrangements over the phone, I will happily arrange a phone conversation with you. But you must send the initial email. Make it apparent in your email that you would like to speak to me via a voice call. I will give you a specific time to call me.
If we are talking on the phone, I expect you to be respectful, polite and to the point. The conversation will be for us to agree on a time and a session date. I will not be having a kinky chat over the phone. I will not dominate you over the phone, nor will I listen to your fetishes for hours.
So I have accepted your application and you have secured a booking so now what?
ON THE DAY
You will text before 09.00 am to confirm you have not forgotten about our appointment. This is your pre-registration.
Do not text 15, 20, 30 minutes before the session saying you have arrived - I will not be ready for you. I keep to strict timings so if we have a session booked for 2 pm, then I will be ready at 2 pm for you. If you are late, it is your session time you are wasting. I will not add extra time to the session for you and the tribute will remain the same.
When I am ready for you to enter my dungeon, I will text you and you can come in. I expect you to be on your best behaviour.
DISCRETION
Keep to your time slot and privacy will be upheld.
I have strict rules on arrival and departure times. I do not want you to bump into anyone and they do not want to bump into you.
No matter how many times you have visited, always remember to keep to your appointment time. I do not appreciate tardiness which may cause embarrassment to others.
THE SESSION
When you arrive for the first time, we will sit and have an informal chat regarding your session. Remember to have your tribute ready in its envelope to hand to me. I will show you around my play space. Shower facilities are available if you need them. A safe word will be clear to us both or if you are gagged you can use a safe non-verbal action. Boundaries, limits and desires will also be known beforehand.
Once a session starts you can use your safe word whenever you want to. The offer of safety is there to have a moment, use the loo or have a sip of water. I want you to be comfortable and feel safe in my environment.
Please note using shower facilities eats into your session time, remind your mistress at the start that you will need a post-session to freshen up.
POST-SESSION
After the session has ended you can use the shower facilities and then we will have a debrief depending on the type of scene. Your welfare is important to me.
It may be possible to pre-book and secure your next session before leaving. But if you are new it may be wise for you to wait a day or so before committing yourself. This works for your Mistress too, as she may not want to see you again.
When you are ready to leave, ensure you have collected your belongings and you feel fit to drive.
If you have left something behind, for example, your watch, it might be tricky for you to just turn up and expect your Mistress to be available. It's best to make contact in an approved way and explain your forgetfulness.
You might be lucky and be able to collect your property quite quickly or you may have to wait until privacy allows. Either way, you will face the consequences.
Location
A stand-alone, self-contained, safe space ready and waiting for us to explore BDSM.
My bespoke dungeon is nestled in the north Kent downs countryside. Sessions with Mistress Evie von Blonde are held here, where privacy and discretion, are paramount. My Dungeon is a detached building, on my property grounds. It is private and secluded with plenty of off-road parking.
A stand-alone, self-contained, safe space ready and waiting for us to explore BDSM.
You can find me at area CT4, just off the B2068.
By car, it is roughly eight miles from Canterbury centre towards Hythe.
From Ashford Centre around 12 miles.
From the M20 coastbound, come off at junction 11. Then head towards Canterbury, travelling about six miles.
The nearest train stations are Western hanger, TN25 6DE. Sandling, CT21 4HH. Both train stations are around 5 - 10 mins to my premises by taxi.
Canterbury west, CT2 8AN, Canterbury East, CT1 2RB and Wye, TN25 5EB all-around 10 mins journey to me by taxi ride.
Once a session with me has been booked and secured. I will give you the full address, along with detailed directions.