FAQ'S
Read through the interview with myself and Master Dom Mr Vexation, many questions are answered there.
Below are more FAQs.
Is this a commercial dungeon?
No, I do not use a commercial dungeon, nor do I hire it out. My playspace is bespoke to my specific requirements.
I am always asked about parking.
Parking at my property is not a problem at all. I am situated in the Kent countryside in over an acre of privacy. My secluded rooms are separate from the main house and parking is inside the grounds directly outside my play space. There are toilet and shower facilities here, with unscented products and fresh towels.
**Please note should you need to shower prior to the start of the session, you will be reducing your allocated session time. If anal training or anal play is to be part of your session, you should be empty and clean before arriving.
If that, is you in the photos, why don’t you show your face?
It is me. If you want to see more of me book a session and visit me in person or pop over to Only Fans. There are many photos and videos on Only Fans.
Once we have exchanged communication via email and a deposit has been secured then you will see me.
Are you discreet?
Yes, my discretion is 100% guaranteed. And it works both ways, hence the lack of full-face photos on my site. If we happened to bump into each other in a supermarket for example, and this has happened. I would not make any obvious form of recognition towards you. I might have an inward smile to myself as this could be an excruciating situation for you, depending on who you are with.
I will not send random emails, WhatsApp, text messages or any other form of unarranged contact. I have set up two email addresses and a Kik app for those canny individuals wishing to remain discrete.
It is of course your responsibility to set up and use privacy settings should you need to.
For anyone needing to send their deposit discreetly, I have set up ways to book via amazon vouchers and cash app.
Can I have a discount?
Absolutely not, my rates go up if you attempt to ask for a discount. I consider this rude and disrespectful. I will not barter. Expect to be severely punished, dismissed, blocked or all of those. You will find there is an extortionate release fee for being impertinent.
Before any session, your deposit will have been confirmed and your tribute handed to me on the day, at the beginning of your session. I do not want to touch the cash tribute, but I expect the correct amount with a tip if you choose to add any, in an envelope.
Is it always painful will there be marks on my body?
BDSM is not always painful. If you do not want any markings on your skin, then that is not a problem. Bondage, restraints, teasing, edging, foot worship, sissy play, sensual deprivation, and the list goes on. There is much more to submission than pain.
I am nervous are you scary?
You should expect to feel nervous anticipation, especially if this is our first session together. I do not expect you to fall to your knees as soon as you enter my realm. I am not a monster, neither do I shout obscenities. You will find I am approachable, prior to the start of any session but I am a professional dominatrix. Once the play begins, however, then your mistress will be in total control of your mind and your body. We use safe words for a reason.
Does a safe word mean everything stops and that I will be punished because I said my safe word?
RED is the most recognised safe word. So, you have said Red, this may mean you do not feel safe in or on some of the equipment. It might be that you need some water. You might need a breather. The session may have triggered a bad memory and you need to stop. Or you just want to stop.
Red means we stop immediately and suss out the problem. It does not necessarily mean your session is over. It just means we need to reassess why you want to stop.
Amber is also used to alert me that you are getting close to your limit or that there could potentially be an issue. If you are gagged, restrained and unable to speak, do not panic we will have nonverbal cues between us. I will know if we need to stop, and I will not carry on regardless just because I am in the zone.
Can I remain anonymous?
I cannot force you to give me your name. For safety issues, your details will be given in an email prior to booking. I will not be sharing any of your information with anyone. During a play session, I will not be using it, you will be lucky if I address you as anything human.
Read the website thoroughly I am sure you will find answers to many of your queries.