An Intimate chat with
Evie Von Blonde
I was instantly made welcome as we began our intimate chat.
She has pride in her appearance, in her premises and her bespoke sessions. This beautiful, curvaceous, woman knows how to get inside your head. She will literally, have you eating out of her hand from the moment you meet her. She is educated, articulate, and she genuinely loves to be worshipped and adored. With exceptionally high standards, all of her slaves are expected to act accordingly, to be well-mannered, willing to learn and open to an exploration of their deepest darkest desires.
Her approach to Fem-Dom is strict, but her sense of humour and sensational smile will make you weak at the knees and willing to serve her, however, she chooses. She believes pain is only part of her repertoire. She adores the newcomer, the slightly nervous virgin. Let her find that naughty sissy girl. Beg her to be tied and teased, to be tethered and tortured.
When did you know domination was your thing?
That is easy to answer. At a young age around 12yrs old, I often helped our local farmer lambing etc. He was a bit of a character whom I respected and also a taskmaster. He was a great teacher who seemed to enjoy my sassy defiance.
After one of our busy lambing days, we sat down to eat our late lunch. A small twig fire blazing at our feet as we discussed the sheep and new-born lambs. Leaning his body against a tree, with the late afternoon sunshine warming his rugged face, before long my mentor was nodding off. Well how rude, what’s a girl to do……Grab some string, Tie the bastards’ ankles together and bind him to the tree, that’s what. When he didn’t react to my act of rebellion, I set the rope on fire!! He wasn’t best pleased with this and I will admit to taking my time freeing him from the ropes. Looking into his eyes whilst watching the panic start to rise. Even though my actions were dangerous, we both knew deep down that I would not cause him any real harm.
We remained friends for years until he sadly passed away. Oh my goodness the power and control I had felt in that moment have stayed with me to this day. On reflection that was a pivotal moment.
How did you get started?
Over the last twenty-five years or so I have lived an adventurous swingers lifestyle. This has helped me explore all aspects of my sexuality. I discovered my love for all genders, especially pretty TVs and Bi-curious females, oh and the shy male. A particular favourite of mine is an over-enthusiastic cocky young stud. One that doesn’t realise whom he’s dealing with. He soon gets the gist of my dominance, when he cannot sit down due to welts on his arse.
I have always known I want control of the pleasure-giving. As it always turns me on bringing a powerful man to his knees. Controlling the sexual encounter whilst handing out kinky instructions with consequences to his Bi-curious partner. A quick shag to appease a swinging fuckbuddy soon became mundane and just didn’t do it for me.
This led me to dabble into the BDSM scene. Visiting dungeons and accompanying femdoms in their own environment. Either observing, taking mental notes, assisting the professional dominatrix in her play space and occasionally running the session.
How much BDSM experience have you had?
I’m not sure what counts as a “real” BDSM experience but I have been privy to many munch meetings, private spank-a-thons and flogging parties. I love a mind game, a glorious head fuck.
Handing out an over-the-knee spanking to one of my many long term subs. Just a small public humiliation, he always deserves it. Allowing another pro-domme, mistress X, to punish my sub.
Talking to her without her permission is unacceptable. Whilst receiving his whipping my boy was permitted eye contact with me. Obviously looking at me, whilst I paid attention to and head stroked mistress X's poor jealous little sub. I’ve enjoyed sissy's waiting on me. Serving me champagne whilst being my human ice bucket. The most comfortable of footstools are a naked chaste slave. Squirming as he tries his best not to dribble precum over the rug.
After experiencing much more than this and wanting to share my despicable nature with others. I entertained the idea of becoming a full-time professional domme myself. I now have my own bespoke, fully equipped play space.
What do I expect from a client?
Every client is a unique individual and will be treated as such. It is not my responsibility to judge a client, either on their kink, mental well-being, or physique. Having said that, a client should be healthy enough in mind and body before embarking on my world.
During servitude, I expect punctuality, obedience, your full attention and your respect. Loyalty, truthfulness and total acceptance are also key points in a Ds commitment. This is true for a one-off session or regular visits.
I have strict confidentiality arrangements and I will demand the same from a client. My privacy is extremely important. Any time spent adoring me and catering for my needs is between the client and myself. I do not tolerate a big mouth with a loose tongue.
Can you trust me?
I am a professional dominatrix, an observer of unspoken body language and I am intuitive. If I feel you and I are a misfit, this will be obvious to me. Occasionally it takes a few meetings for a client to feel secure during a session. But you might be uninvited if I feel the connection is a lost cause. Neither of us wants to be disappointed nor waste time.
With trust being a big thing between a mistress and her slave, an intimate bond can become intense. Yes, you can trust me to recognise a good Ds connection. You can trust me to respect boundaries
But if a sub does not trust me enough to disclose their hard limits or pain tolerance, sessions may become frustrating.
So yes you can trust me but it works both ways. Can I trust you?
How far do I push?
There are limitations to any BDSM powerplay. You have a safe word, I expect you to use it. Say it without fear of ridicule or reprisals. For whatever reason.
It may be that you wish to stop the session altogether. You might need to take a breather or you might be having an off day. We are all human it does happen sometimes. I will definitely push your boundaries and it is going to hurt but harming you is not my intention. I can be a bitch of a mistress but I work safely. The onus is on the client to communicate any strict limitations before any session. Your limits may change over time. I expect you to tell me if your levels of tolerance have changed, then I can adjust mine.
Should you be scared?
I feel an evil laugh bubbling under the surface. But no you should not be afraid of Mistress Evie Von Blonde. Nervous anticipation is to be expected though. A feeling of unease, yes, you should absolutely experience that. My approach to meeting a new sub is, to be honest, and amenable. Remember why you have found me. I will accommodate your desires if they fit in with mine. Your darker side may surface and you may find these feelings unusual. Your pain threshold will be tested and your cravings touched upon. You will experience some emotions that may be uncomfortable at the time. Once your session has ended though you can choose to repress your yearnings until your next session. Nothing to be concerned about though, safe, sane and consensual adult powerplay at all times.
What do I get out of our sessions:
I am a businesswoman, a woman that adores being adored and I am good at what I love to do. I live and work within a lifestyle that includes kink and dominance, power and control.
I love to purchase sexy outfits showing my clients everything they cannot have. The thrill of opening new BDSM equipment, knowing exactly how I will thrash, bind and abuse you with it the next time you submit to me.
The fee and the gifts from my clients help pay for my lifestyle. Knowing that a sub has paid me for my expertise, my precious time. That in itself is a powerful statement, an aphrodisiac.
Drop to your knees worship me, please me, impress me with your inner strength. Show me how much you can take from me. Tell me how much you want me to humiliate your sorry arse. Squeal for me, whimper and squirm before me. Serve me, devote yourself to me, please me, fall in love with me. Your punishment and servitude will continue, you are just a plaything to spend some time with for now. I will not chat endlessly with you, nor will I send or receive media messages. The control I have over you in our sessions is the biggest turn-on of all.
Tributes and Gifts.
Payment for my time includes a security booking deposit and a cash tribute on the day. I expect you to have made sure the correct amount is ready before a session. If you wish to add more cash that is obviously a lovely gesture and greatly appreciated. But the gesture will not give you any extra benefits with me. Service prices are made clear and I do not wish to discuss them further.
Time and again I am asked what’s my favourite drink, my favourite colour, my jewellery preference, my shoe size etc.
I have an amazon wish list if you want to see it but I do not expect anything.
Not many know this about me.
I have a big wish and that is to wing walk. Strapped to a Bi-Plane dressed in leather and lace.
And think on this snippet before asking me a stupid question.
Only two men have witnessed a submissive side to me and I enjoy their company still. How I would love to turn tables on them. But they are truly Dominant and controlling individuals in the bedroom. So future submissive think on, there’s no point in any of my clients thinking I will switch for them.
NEVER GONNA HAPPEN.
By Mr Vexation (Dom Master)
